...There was an addendum?

I think it is important to note that throughout this my parents were in town. This made it hard and easy. It's hard to explain but sometimes it's hard to know whether it's easier to work through things alone or with others. It sets the stage for how we deal with this from now on. We love the people in our lives but also know that balancing that with our own space (even Lynn or I alone and apart from each other from time to time) is going to be very important.

This is all so fast and we know so little...